CLIENT INTERVIEW: Alexus’s Story
Becoming a mother is a life-changing event, and for Alexus, it was an extraordinary journey filled with challenges, perseverance, and triumph. Alexus, a first-time mom and a member of the Pumping for Working Moms Program, recently shared her story, offering inspiration and insights for other working moms navigating the demands of breastfeeding and career.
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Pumping in the NICU
“My daughter was born with a congenital lung defect and spent the first four weeks in the NICU,” Alexus recounted. “I had to pump right away, but she couldn’t even have my full-fat breast milk at first—it had to be skimmed.”
Those initial weeks were a whirlwind of pumping every drop, balancing NICU visits, and recovering from a cesarean section.
“I didn’t know much about pumping or flange sizing back then. I was trying to figure everything out on my own. That’s when I found the Pumping for Working Moms program—it became my lifeline.”
Discovering the Program
By six months postpartum, Alexus knew she needed more support.
“I was spending 30 to 45 minutes pumping and barely making enough,” she explained.
“One day, I was in that TikTok rabbit hole again and found this mom that was pumping massive amounts, and I was like, ‘Why doesn’t my output look like that?’” Alexus shared.
“It really made me question if I was doing enough for my baby. But once I found the program, I realized that comparing myself to others wasn’t helping—it was about finding what worked for me and my baby.”
One of Alexus’s biggest breakthroughs came from experimenting with flange sizes.
“I started at a 27mm flange, but after learning about sizing through the program, I ended up using 17mm and 19mm flanges depending on the time of day. My output improved almost immediately—it was incredible.”
Building Confidence at Work
Returning to work brought a new set of challenges, but Alexus adapted with determination.
“Adding pumps during my commute, as suggested during a group call, was a game-changer. It felt awkward at first, but my supply went from barely enough to more than enough. It was the small, actionable tips like that which made all the difference.”
She also highlighted the supportive community.
“The group calls and online forums were invaluable. Hearing other moms’ stories and advice reassured me I wasn’t alone.”
Embracing Flexibility and Success
At 14 months postpartum, Alexus continues to breastfeed her daughter.
“The program taught me how to listen to my body and adjust my schedule as needed. Now, pumping feels manageable, even enjoyable. I used to dread pumping—it hurt, and I would stay up at night full of anxiety about the next session,” Alexus admitted.
“It felt like such a chore, and I honestly didn’t think I’d make it to a year. But with the support I found in the program, everything changed. I learned to understand my body, adjust my routine, and make pumping work for me. Now, I’ve not only surpassed my one-year goal, but I also enjoy pumping—it’s part of my life that feels manageable and even empowering. I’m still going strong at 14 months because I finally got the support I needed to make this journey sustainable and rewarding.”
When asked about her advice for new moms, Alexus emphasized the importance of seeking support: “You don’t have to figure everything out on your own. The Pumping for Working Moms program provides the tools and community to help you succeed.”
Final Thoughts
Alexus’s journey is a testament to the resilience of working moms and the power of a supportive community. For those struggling with the balance of breastfeeding and work, Alexus’s story is proof that with the right guidance and mindset, you can achieve your goals.
As Alexus puts it, “Motherhood is hard, but you’re not supposed to do it alone. Find your tribe, get the help you need, and keep pushing forward.”
Are you a working mom struggling to balance breastfeeding with your career? The Pumping for Working Moms Program might be the solution you’re looking for. Learn more and join a community of moms who understand and support your journey.
Meet Allison Tolman, LPN, IBCLC!
She is the owner and founder of New Little Life, a company dedicated to providing objective information and support for pumping mothers. With 15+ years of experience in various pregnancy and postpartum fields including as an LPN, birth doula, childbirth educator, and IBCLC, her current research focuses on testing and exploring breast pumps to find the most practical way to help pumping mothers reach their goals as well as teaching lactation professionals to better understand the complex art of pumping.
She runs a long-term coaching program to support working mothers who are pumping.
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