New Little Life

Allison Tolman

Birth Doula, Lactation Counselor, Birth and Bereavement Doula

Bereavement Services

I’m truly sorry for whatever circumstances bring you to this section of my services, but I’m glad you’re here.

As of April 2016, I am certified as a Birth and Bereavement Doula through StillBirthDay. As a StillBirthday Birth and Bereavement Doula, I am prepared to assist with birth in all outcomes including miscarriage (at any gestation), fetal demise, stillborn, fatal/challenging diagnosis, and also subsequent/rainbow/live births. If you have recently experienced a loss or received a challenging diagnosis, I am ready to support you right now, where you are, whether preparing for your baby’s birth or recovering from your baby’s loss. I am also available to support you by attending your 6 week postpartum visit with you, so that you don’t have to face that alone.

I do not charge for bereavement services, but will gratefully accept a goodwill offering either to me or to a charity of your choice.

Lawton/Fort Sill, OK Local Resources

Grief Support Groupsmap
Compassionate Friends is a non-denominational support group for grieving parents, grandparents, sibling, anyone grieving the loss of a child. They meet the 1st Thursday of every month at
1st Church of the Nazarene
1402 NW Arlington
Lawton, OK 73507
Main page
Lawton Chapter
Facebook page

Pregnancy/Prenatal Resources
The Pregnancy Resources Center of Southwest Oklahoma

Local Hospitals
♦ Comanche County Memorial Hospital
3401 West Gore Blvd
♦ Southwestern Medical Center
5602 SW Lee Blvd
♦ Reynolds Army Community Hospital
4301 Wilson Ave

Funeral Homes
♦ Lawton-Ritter-Gray Funeral Home
♦ Becker Funeral Home
♦ Comanche Nation Funeral Home
♦ Howard Harris Funeral Home
♦ Miller’s Mortuary
♦ Whinery-Huddleston Funeral Service

Rememberance Photography

♦ Now I Lay Me Down To Sleep

Remembrance photography to parents suffering the loss of a baby. Find a local photographer here. 


Bastians Bears

Bastian’s Bears is their way of offering a tangible means of comfort in support for those who have been impacted by child loss. Each bear is either weighted to the child’s birth weight or offered with a “time capsule” pouch for storing precious keepsake items.

Perfect Memorials

Choose from a variety of products such as cremation urns, pet urns, cremation jewelry, caskets and other sympathy gifts. Many of our products are uniquely crafted by skilled artisans, representing the uniqueness of our loved ones.


I have not linked this with a specific shop, but there are many memorial items such as jewelry, pendants, charms, figurines, etc. There are a few items on my personal shop as well, but there are so many options for handmade memorial items from sellers around the world. Search around until you find something that is meaningful to you. If you’d like some suggestions, I’d be happy to share my favorite shops with you.

Memorial Sites
♦ Gone Too Soon – Create a Memorial
♦ Memory Jar – A site for sharing memories and information
♦ Still Born Angel – A site designed to honor the lives of all stillborn angels.


What To Expect With...
Online Resources and Support Groups

♦ Start Here, with StillBirthDay.
A pregnancy loss is still a birthday. Find a birth and bereavement doula in your area. Tons of information and resources. Connect with others and find support. Personal stories & photos. A globally recognized authority on pregnancy loss in any trimester. There is an abundant amount of resources on their website. Feel free to explore all they have to offer.

♦ Bereaved Parents of the USA
Bereaved Parents of the USA (BP/USA) is a national non-profit self-help group that offers support, understanding, compassion and hope especially to the newly bereaved be they bereaved parents grandparents or siblings struggling to rebuild their lives after the death of their children, grandchildren or siblings.

♦ The Grief Toolbox

♦ Standing Still Magazine

♦ Babies Remembered

Military Resources

Resources for Military Families

Online Support Groups

Facebook Groups
♦ Miscarriage & Pregnancy Loss
♦ Faces of Loss, Faces of Hope
♦ PTSD Mamas
♦ Stories of Babies Born Still

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Allison Tolman
Certified Birth and Bereavement Doula
(307) 272-7801

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